Friends come in all shapes and sizes, but the ones made abroad last a lifetime. In Amsterdam, I hung out with au pairs exclusively. This year, it’s a fun mix of students, teachers, au pairs and expats. However, there’s something special about an au pair friend (so special that you look at your au pair friends like you’re going to eat them, as I do in the picture on the left). Thanks to Easter holidays, and therefore general partying, socialising and networking, I’ve really been slacking here-so I thought a post to celebrate the ones who distracted me the most was in order. Without further ado, XXX reasons why au pair friends rule all friends
- Kid stories. Only other au pairs know how it warms your heart to receive a self portrait from a five year old, or to hear a baby say their first word.
- Culture shock. Some of us don’t even know we’re in its midst, some of us handle it better than others, but it’s always better not to go it alone.
- Travel opportunities. When the year is over, you can visit each other at home!
- Poking fun at the local people together. Now, of course you became an au pair to experience a new culture. However, the deeper we dive into our host countrys’ customs, the weirder things get. Complaining about the natives is, in my opinion, a normal part of culture shock (but not necessarily one you’ll want to share with your host parents!).
- #aupairproblems. We all know that some of our struggles aren’t so real, but they’re ours. (top ten au pair problems coming soon).
- Getting to know your city is easier when you’ve got back up with you.
- Free time is best spent outside of your room, house and the world of childcare.
- Crying together. From parties to host families to kids and friends, the drama involved in being an au pair is legit,
- Laughing together. After a long week of diapers, it’s easy to feel so off your rocker that you burst into a laugh attack as soon as the weekend starts. When you have your bestie by your side sharing the sentiment, you might look slightly less nuts.
- Growing up together. Whether you’re 17 or 27, an au pair year teaches you about a world you’ve probably never seen, socially, geographically, emotionally, and all the other -allys. Just when you think you’re an adult, becoming an au pair pushes you to mature much, much more, causing those who do so with you become just like childhood friends.